LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP, RELATIONSHIP IS NOT JUST A GAME.

Listen! Ideologies are key. Learn to peg people to the wall, so their philosophies can appear.
I am naturally inquisitive. Even my friends know this. Except you’re not really my friend. If you are, then I should be able to Xerox tangible details about you, if need appears. I don’t take chances. 

When you go out with a guy or a lady you want to marry, find out their beliefs and convinctions. Don't be moved by what they're driving, know what drives them! It’s important! Leave ice-cream and pizza.  If you get this one right, na you go tire for flexing. (In Success’s voice). But if you jump this, that ice-cream will become bitter leaf in your mouth, tomorrow.

You want some questions? Start here. Others will come to you.
What’s your understanding about sex? Yes ladies ask. And be observant! Before you start making noise that your husband is bisexual on social media, tomorrow.  Do you prefer working class women or housewives? Do you believe in God? Are you Pro-choice or homophobic?  What’s your relationship with your father and mother like? Do you have a bestie? If yes, male or female? Where did you grow up? Who raised you? What do you think of men? What do you think of women?  Do you believe in a woman having more money than a man? Do you believe in polygamy? Do you want kids? If yes, how many?

Know people beyond their expensive perfumes and designer shoes. Sit down and creatively discuss your destiny. Everything is not pizza and sex. When you’re marrying a man/woman, you’re marrying their plans. Their programs. Their ideologies. Their creeds. You’re either going to enjoy their peace or inherit their battles.

Well, how do you even know if someone is compatible with you?
Firstly, by knowing yourself. Sit down and discover your principles. Know those things you can’t compromise or entertain, and work with them. don’t let frustration land you into fire. Be careful.

And please, I am not saying look for a rich man and marry, or dump a guy because he isn't boxed at the moment. I just need us to begin to focus on virtues. Rather than ephemeral things like physical appearance, fleshly pleasures, and money. The most important part about a person is the Quality of their spirit. Other things can shut down at any moment.

So, inasmuch as you want to be comfortable and marry rich, don’t turn down a proposal from a Joseph in prison, because of a Judas riding G-wagon. A Joseph is a blessed man, and even if he is in the pit today, the blessing in him will eventually take him to the palace tomorrow. I guarantee you.
Remember, diamonds come in dull wrapping sheets. But they don’t stay that way forever.