13 DANGEROUS THINGS WIVES ARE DOING

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not
wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks
wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s
rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of
herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be
eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should
be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of
such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of
the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with
fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an
empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes
that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman
gently wields her power and the head actually turns to
wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’
influence and advice or even from the control of her mother
and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to
let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks,
shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start
wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7
years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he
should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he
saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled
for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions
and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why
are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks –
we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a
difference between someone disfiguring herself and the
person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be
complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you
were when he first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a
serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you
than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has
no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A
wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is
always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways
to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all
arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not
careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and
laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and
calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in
deed?
13. When you rely on your beauty, cookings, character,
connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your
man and your home intact without putting God in the picture,
you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.
Put God first in your home.