The issue of liking a particular person whether a male or a female in a dating and marriage togetherness has rendered many relationships dead.
Many have ended their relationships abruptly without understanding the kind of person they are getting along with.
Likeness to or for a person has now been interpreted as cheating in so many relationships now and composure to understand the mathematics of coping with your partner into a
friendship relationship has eluded many.
There are seven types of love and the love of true friendship is called PHILEO LOVE.Your handling your friendship has to be with wisdom and a lack of it can bring untold unhappiness and
instability to your togetherness.
Your man , ur woman, ur husband and wife should know your friend, that is of the opposite gender
Because carrying him along means you respect him or her and you are being transparent too, not being detailed about what goes on in your friendship with that person means you have
skeletons in your cupboard.
It is a different ball game if your partner is particularly jealous or possessive, it then means he or she will scrutinize your every move which you might not like because you might like
your space, this should not happen if there is a maximum level of trust though I see many married counselled of mine that are married complaining about how their partners fight them over the
various friends in their lives. And am like are you just realizing he or she Is like this after several years of dating?
Fine, if it is too late for you in marriage, u might have to sacrifice your happiness and freedom just to make your partner happy that If you don't have divorce in mind (which Is not God's plan even)
Also, dont marry someone who will not allow u to express your self with your friends just because u are married to him or her
Another thing Is this, don't be too free and careless with your friendships just because your man/husband or woman/wife doesn't talk or complain, he or she may just be trying to be understanding and cut you some slack, try not to bring out the animal in him or her, everyone has a bit of jealousy in him or her, in fact It is healthy to exhibit a little part of it sometimes.


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