WHO TAUGHT YOU THAT YOU DON'T NEED THIRD PARTY IN YOUR MARRIAGE?

Is that why you have been suffering in silence? Is that why you
don't share your pains and worries with anyone for help? No
wonder your spouse increases in wickedness daily, because
he/she knows you won't talk to anyone about it.
Who did this damage to our marriages? Who taught you this
imbalanced idea? Where do they find that in the Bible? Who
told you not to let third party into your marriage without
defining who a third party is?
Many people today are suffering from chronic domestic
violence and depression; sadly they've been taught that they
don't need third parties so they kept it to themselves. Some
are going through trauma and frustration which they can't
share with anyone because third parties are not allowed. Some
have even died in the process yet no one knows what killed
them.
It's time to loose this band of wickedness we tied on the
people. "No Third Party In Marriage" is man's philosophy and
that's why it has become more of a cancer than medicine. It's
doing more harm than good. Let's kill it before it kills our
marriages.
The third parties you don't need in your marriage are intruders,
selfish people, haters, pretenders, evil and wicked people etc
and not those who genuinely love you, counsellors, prayer
partners, godly people etc. You need good third parties to
learn from, seek advice from; you need third parties who can
pray for you and with you, third parties who can settle your
quarrels, third parties who understand marriage more than you
etc. Don't die in silence when you can speak to someone who
can help you.
The reason why that your husband is still abusing you is
because no one is aware of it. If you don't speak out he may
not likely stop. Talk to people he respects and fears who can
correct him before his abusiveness becomes an addiction. If
you die in silence instead of getting help, it will be counted
against you as suicide. Don't commit suicide when you can
get help.
Before we became adults our parents taught us.
Before we became professionals our teachers taught us.
Before we became godly our clergy taught us.
Before we became experienced we learnt from others.
Marriage cannot work in isolation, we need good people
around to contribute little to make it work.